From grief to growth: Student finds healing and purpose at NWU

From grief to growth: Student finds healing and purpose at NWU

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  • Marielle Wilson
  • Marielle Wilson

A Journey Shaped by Loss

Marielle Wilson’s path to Nebraska Wesleyan University began hundreds of miles away in Michigan. A first-generation college student and single mother, she started her academic career at Delta College. Amid the challenges of balancing coursework and parenting during the COVID-19 pandemic, she faced an unimaginable loss—her son’s father, a veteran, tragically lost his battle with PTSD.

“I always knew I wanted to transfer,” Wilson said. “I was even getting offers from Ivy League schools. But after our loss, I needed to reassess everything.”

That period of grief and reflection ultimately led her to Nebraska Wesleyan. Through her membership in Phi Theta Kappa (PTK), a national community college honor society, she earned a scholarship that made the move possible.

“When I first toured NWU, I fell in love instantly. I just knew it was where I needed to be,” she said. “It was a huge sacrifice to move out of state, and I left my son with his grandparents so I could pursue higher education. It wasn’t easy, but it was beautiful in its own way. It felt peaceful, like the right step forward.”


Finding Purpose Through Art and Psychology

Since arriving at NWU, Wilson has immersed herself in the university’s art and psychology programs, an academic blend that’s preparing her for a future career in art therapy.

“I was looking at a lot of prestigious art programs,” she said, “but what stood out about NWU was how unique their classes are. They offer things like metal smithing and a course called Research Painting, which I’m taking right now. It's not a normal painting class; they expand upon your skills and apply things like color theory and mathematics.”

These experiences are shaping her vision for the future. “What I’m learning will make me a better art therapist someday—understanding why people are drawn to certain colors, or how our eyes perceive depth. Those kinds of insights aren’t offered at every university.”

Wilson credits much of her growth to her professors. “I look to my faculty like family. They’ve been so welcoming and encouraging. Every single one of my professors pushes me to find myself. For example, Professor David Gracie is an expert on color theory. He gives incredible critiques that make you see your work differently and apply that knowledge to your career.”


Building a Community Away from Home

The transition from Michigan to Nebraska wasn’t just an academic leap—it was a personal one.

“The support system and family I have at Wesleyan have been exceptional,” Wilson said. “That’s been integral for me and my son. He’s even met some of my professors. My family flew here from Michigan for his birthday, and everyone has been so supportive. My son has been part of this academic journey so Mama could get her degree.”

She also found belonging through NWU’s art club, which she credits with helping her grow as both an artist and a person. “Professor Lisa Lockman introduced me to the art club, and that was a game changer. We do critiques, collaborate, and everyone is so welcoming. It’s been amazing.”


Immersing Herself in Her Passion

“I have a pretty elaborate portfolio,” she said. “I’ve collaborated with NASA and the Henson Company, and last year I won a juried art exhibition that was featured in a museum. NWU has helped me expand on the things I love doing.”

This semester, she’s channeling that inspiration into a furniture collection that blends her Michigan roots with her Nebraska experience.

“My collection represents both states,” she explained. “I’m using elements from nature—maple leaves, rocks, rivers—and weaving them into the designs. It’s poetic, really. Wesleyan has taught me to see art holistically. We even talk about poetry while painting.”

Lately, Wilson’s been inspired by the transcendentalist writers. “My furniture collection embodies their principles—being in nature, celebrating learning, self-discovery and higher education. It’s the perfect way to merge my love of art with what I’ve learned here.”


A Story of Strength

Marielle’s story is one of strength, perseverance and the power of art to heal. Now thriving academically—she currently holds over 100% in all her classes—Wilson is proof that determination and hope can transform even the deepest pain into purpose. 

“For anyone considering transferring—if I can do it, after everything I’ve faced, you can too. Our story includes tragedy, but it’s also one of hope and growth. Wesleyan has truly been a blessing.”